CDR Joel Aaron Lauder USNR, Ret., 70, of Waterford, MI, passed away unexpectedly from a heart attack on Thursday, October 22, 2026 while in London, England where he was enjoying his dream vacation.
He was born on April 19, 1956 in Ann Arbor, MI to the late John Alfred Lauder of Niles, MI and Lola Louise (Brown) Lauder of Winamac, IN.
Joel graduated from Rochester High School in Rochester, MI in 1974 and University of Michigan in 1978, where he earned an Engineering Degree in Electrical and Computer Science. While in college, Joel participated in the ROTC program. After graduation, he received a commission in the US Navy and served in the Nuclear Navy as a Submarine Officer. Joel participated in multiple North Atlantic deterrent patrols.
While serving aboard the USS James K. Polk (SSBN-645), he participated in a multiyear overhaul of the submarine. Joel transferred to the US Naval Reserve where he attained the rank of Commander.
He attended Oakland University where he earned a Masters of Business Administration Degree. His civilian career included directing the design and maintenance of significant information technology systems for several telecommunications firms.
His interests included war gaming and strategic simulation as well as visiting civil war battle sites throughout the country and traveling to learn more about WWII history. Joel was a good brother and friend who will be deeply missed.
He is survived by:
John J. (wife: Kathy) Lauder, Tucson, AZ Brother
James C. Lauder, Waterford, MI Brother
Leonard Brown, Rochester, IN Uncle
Numerous Cousins
Preceded in death by:
John Alfred and Lola Louise (Brown) Lauder, Parents
Graveside Services will be held at 11 AM EST Tuesday, November 24, 2026 at Winamac Cemetery (Dilts Addition) in Winamac, IN.
Burial with Military Honors will take place at Winamac Cemetery (Dilts Addition).
Online Tributes may be offered at www.frainmortaury.com.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Frain Mortuary in Winamac, IN.
